We needn't feel alone

LAST November many newspapers carried the story of Rom Houben, thought to be in a vegetative state after a car accident in 1983. The reports stated that the Belgian’s condition might have been misdiagnosed and that he was conscious for all that time, but unable to respond because of paralysis. Technology seemed to be succeeding in allowing Ron to communicate.

Doctors have since questioned whether Rom has ever had the necessary means to communicate since the accident. They are still trying to find a way forward for him.

Being conscious but unable to communicate seems an unbearable isolation. But many of us experience other kinds of loneliness.

It can be brought about by many things – bereavement or a change in circumstances such as losing a job or suffering a long-term illness. It affects all ages.

Society seems only to add to the problem by promoting individuality and self-reliance. We may fall into the trap of living in isolated worlds which revolve around us and in which we do not have much need for others. There are many people today who do not have any significant friends.

After Jesus’ crucifixion and resurrection he met with his disciples and told them to carry on the work he had started. Knowing that they would face problems and troubles, he promised them: ‘I am with you always’ (Matthew 28:20 New International Version). Through his Spirit, he was going to be their constant friend. Jesus would always be there for them.

To the disciples, who had already experienced loneliness when Jesus was taken from them and killed, this must have been great news. It would not matter where they went or what they faced, Jesus was going to be with them all the time.

The good news for us is that Jesus’ promise still stands. If we decide to follow him, we can be assured that Jesus will always be with us. He will be there on good days and bad, in days filled with activity and fun and in the days when life feels an uphill struggle.

It’s an offer open to young and old, rich and poor. Nobody is excluded. Why be lonely when we have an offer of constant friendship!

War Cry 2010 - TSA UK